KINDNESS- BASIS TO A POSITIVE LIFE

 

When somebody is nice to us and treats us well, we feel good and respond in the same manner. The whole feeling towards the instance becomes joyous and positive. On the other hand, when somebody doesn't treat us well or becomes rude, we distant ourselves from them. The whole feeling becomes weird and quite negative. Therefore, you can see what effect kindness have on us. 

We all expect others to be nice to us, respect us, and sometimes agree with us but what we forget is that the others expect the same from us. We want the universe to work in our favor but contribute very less in making it do so. Remember, the universe will bring you what you bring to the universe. It is important for us to be kind and generous to receive the same amount of kindness and generosity from others.

Some people argue "when we are kind to others we are often took advantage of. People think that we are weak and thus it is important to remain hard." Also, some people argue "even if we are kind to someone, they are not that kind to us, instead try to control us as they think they can easily command us". Remember, being kind is not an indication of a weak person and nobody can overpower you. When you are being kind, you are concerned about the other person and you keep your stand in a calm and positive way. This does not mean that you cannot say NO to the other person. Every body has the right to do what they think is right. If you feel that the other person is not very kind to you, just try to understand that their mood may not be right and give them their space. You must not lose your kindness at that time. Stay calm. If these misconceptions drag you into being hard on others, you will be surrounded by all the negativity.


As a kid we were taught numerous ways to be kind to others and as we grow up we start taking them for granted. We are deeply rooted to the belief that people will cheat and everybody just cares about themselves. So, let's break this damaging thought and put some light again on those ways for achieving the world full of kindness.

  • Smile more often
  • Help others
  • Speak softly and in a respectful manner 
  • Be a good listener and sympathize more
  • Appreciate someone's hard work
  • Give a warm welcome to new people in your group
  • Discuss more, debate less
  • Co-operate and adjust with others
  • Do not make fun of others or bully others
  • Do not force someone into doing something
  • Do not make faces at others
  • Make peace

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