Lively life

In this world of more than 7 billion people, there are large number of personalities carrying different traits and characteristics. Everyone is different from one another in some or the other way. Even though we belong to a society or to a community, we are different from each other in the terms of thoughts and our approach towards life. We are different in the ways how we handle various situations and tasks.  In this blog, I will be discussing about an egotistic personality and why one should not be like them. An egotistic personalitiy thinks that their way of doing things is the only correct way for leading an ideal life. One more trait associated such people is that they observe a lot, A LOT. It can stretch to Spying as well (in some cases) and then analyzing and judging and drawing conclusions. This majorly happens in our Indian society in some women. They love Sneaking/Observing, comparing, taking credits, blabbering about themselves, and commenting on almost everything you do...

 Have you ever wondered WHY we all behave in a particular way in a particular space ? Or.. WHY do we feel nervous in an interview? Or may be.. WHY do we feel happy while traveling to some hill station ? WHY do we feel relaxed in the spa room ? WHY do we feel stressed at job ? etc.  When I was at my mother's house, in the middle of something, a question like this clicked my mind. WHY do I feel so composed and cool headed at my mother's place? When I thought a little more about it, I got the answer. It's the atmosphere we live in that influences our feelings, our emotions, our thoughts and ultimately our actions. My parents are very harmonious people and quite happy with their lives. They believe in encouraging us by guiding towards the right direction without being critical or making any sarcastic remark. They enjoy the little things in life like watching movies, eating together, meeting relatives, and taking care of each other by just being there for each other. They love t...

  When somebody is nice to us and treats us well, we feel good and respond in the same manner. The whole feeling towards the instance becomes joyous and positive. On the other hand, when somebody doesn't treat us well or becomes rude, we distant ourselves from them. The whole feeling becomes weird and quite negative. Therefore, you can see what effect kindness have on us.  We all expect others to be nice to us, respect us, and sometimes agree with us but what we forget is that the others expect the same from us. We want the universe to work in our favor but contribute very less in making it do so. Remember, the universe will bring you what you bring to the universe. It is important for us to be kind and generous to receive the same amount of kindness and generosity from others. Some people argue "when we are kind to others we are often took advantage of. People think that we are weak and thus it is important to remain hard." Also, some people argue "even if we are k...

  Today all of us are running to achieve something in our lives. On the way to achieve our goals we sacrifice our happiness and give it the least priority. We are bound to think that life is difficult and one has to struggle through the journey of life but the fact is, life is easy if you take it simply and not complicate it for yourself. In this article, I will be sharing some of the sins that we all commit which directly or indirectly lowers our happiness and also discuss about the habits one should adopt to increase their levels of long-term happiness. SIN 1: Devaluating happiness When you do not give happiness much importance knowingly or unknowingly and sacrifice it for the sake of other things then over some time you start living a stressful life and surround yourself with the negative thoughts only. For example, in a relationship, if there is any argument, we often try to prove ourselves right which leads to further arguments and lowering our happiness. In s...